You know that feeling you get when you keep trying to have a simple conversation with someone in your life—someone who you need to talk with, either at work or personally—and it’s always a struggle? Despite your best intentions, neither of you is having any fun—and you both wish the conversation would end quickly so you can stop feeling like crap?
There’s a reason for that.
And I totally feel you on this one, because this used to happen to me a lot. So of course I wasn’t going to rest until I found out what to do about it.
This strategy I created is so simple it feels like magic—and it’s 100% effective in moving any conversation forward with anyone.
Here’s why: this strategy will help you to see the entire conversation from a 360-degree view, so you can see as much about what you’re doing as you can about what the other person is doing. (That’s 90% of your success right there.) AND—you can pick up 5 important clues about how each of you communicate so you can adjust yourself to better get your message across, listen better and (finally) be heard.
My favorite part is that it will also help you figure out when (about 5% of time) it’s best to simply stop trying to talk to each other (so you can stop banging your head against that proverbial wall).
Now here’s the funny thing
After 40 years of knowing how to solve this problem and sharing my strategy with thousands of people around the world, this conversation glitch is still a problem for a lot of people.
Here’s the good news: if you happen to be one of them, this is your personal invitation to join me for a 90-minute zoom Masterclass to find out exactly what to do about it. I’m offering the first session on Friday at 7 am EDT. (and if Friday feels too soon—or too early—no worries. You can join me for the repeat session on Friday, April 19 at 7PM EDT.)
Why am I offering this for free and inviting you?
Because this is just about the most fun I can have in this world (OK—although it’s not the only thing I do that’s fun, it’s right up there in my top 3.)
Here are some examples of the kinds of challenges this strategy has helped my clients (and me) to dissolve:
- You work for someone who doesn’t like you—and who makes decisions about your promotions and pay raises/bonuses
- Your spouse is starting to get on your last nerve—and has told you that you’re definitely getting on theirs
- You have a teenager who isn’t listening to you
- You have a co-worker who you don’t like and don’t trust—and the feeling is mutual
- You dread visiting your in-laws
- You have someone in your life who you have to talk to—yet it’s always some version of a royal pain in your butt
And here’s the most fun reason for you to join us: after I share this simple strategy and show you exactly how to use it, I’ll be sitting in “the hot seat” for you and helping you unpack any conversation that’s driving you nuts using the strategy you just learned—so you can see exactly how it works in “3D!”
Here’s the link to register for Friday’s session:
Have a phenomenal week!