Create the Feelings You Want In Any Conversation
If the idea that you can create your own feelings has never even occurred to you, consider:
What would be possible in your relationships if you felt comfortable sharing exactly how you feel and asking for exactly what you want? Wouldn’t that be cool? (Most folks can’t imagine that, yet it turns out to be much simpler than you think.)
What would be different for you if there were less people who you don’t like and don’t get along with? (This is the number one barrier to success that most folks experience—and it changes completely with a bit of Communication Sorcery.)
How much easier would life be if you didn’t have to feel defensive about misunderstandings in your important relationships? (The number of people who do everything they can to keep from feeling “wrong” is mind-boggling. The number of people who say they don’t feel “heard” and have a hard time listening is even higher. The antidote for all of this is so simple it’s hard to believe that it’s invisible to most folks.)